Processing Divorce

In which I write about my own experience of having divorced parents and then getting divorced after 19 years of marriage.

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Was it "too soon" for me to start dating, after only being divorced for six months?

I've decided that this assessment of something being "too soon" is neither sensical nor helpful.

Sep 30 •

The Ring Theory of Grief: Comfort In, Dump Out

When someone you know is grieving, and you're not sure what to say/do, remember this principle: Comfort in, Dump out.

Sep 14 •

Performing CPR on a Corpse

If Denial is the first stage of Grief, then me trying to live at home--even after our marriage ended--was clear evidence that I was grieving hard.

Aug 31 •

The Day I Moved Out

August 23rd, 2022 was our 19th wedding anniversary. It was also the night I finally moved out.

Aug 23 •

One Year Ago Today My Marriage Ended

And here's a question a lot of folks have asked: "Were you surprised?"

Aug 15 •

A Fairly Significant Life Update

It's finally time I share something with you all...

Feb 16 •

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